Well I knew moving was stressful, moving an entire house on your own is additionally stressful but actually agreeing on decor, layout, appliances and so on just notches it up to kill me now stress levels.
Apparently the colloqial phrase everything is shit constitutes a meaningful and purposeful way of starting a discussion on the contents of the house it can include items such as the doors are shit which conveniently goes hand-in-hand with there are too many doors (one for each room if anyone's interested!), floor tiles, bathroom tiles, curtain rails, fireplace, kitchen …. the list goes on but the phrase remains the same.
I think my mistake was actually buying a house maybe i should have bought just the shell it might have been a better solution.